Cozy Up with a Blanket Scarf

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Cool weather is very slowly making itself known over here in southern BC, and all over the country,  that means that cozy layers are the way to go!

I love giant scarves, and what better way to stay warm than to wrap a blanket around you?  That’s what I did when styling this look for my sister, Jordyn (similar blankets here).  What’s even better is that the company Sackcloth & Ashes donates one blanket to your local homeless shelter when you purchase one!  I love companies who strive to make a positive impact on the community around them.

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Also, how darling is this Moroccan clutch?  It’s a handmade in Morocco, from artisans who receive fair trade pay.  The intricate details are so swoon-worthy, and it adds something special to an ordinary outfit.

Stay warm friends!

A Word On Retrospectives

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Timidly, I am choosing the limbs and breastbone of one,

 

A man who isn’t much for spoken words,

 

But whose touch resounds on me

 

With the impact of Halley’s,

 

Falling,

 

Landing,

 

A whisper into the ground.

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These images mark the end of a season and the beginning of a very new period in my life. Late this past summer, I chose to try joining the journey I’m on with that of someone else and I’m learning that this kind of thing – a relationship – is intricate and case-specific.

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Men with short beards, softer sides and hearts that are a rich basin of complexity. This has been my jam for years and the variety of men like this with whom I’ve crossed paths have helped to teach me lessons each in their own turn. However, what I’m learning now is that, despite a wealth of lessons that develop later on into wisdom, relationships can’t be tamed and constrained by algorithms and lessons learned.

 

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My dad said recently of relationships: “[he doesn’t] think that anything is natural or normal”. Perhaps unsurprisingly, this statement came up during a time when I was having difficulty establishing some sort of standard to which to compare my relationship. Since mulling on the truth of my dad’s words, I’ve been learning that generalities and norms won’t bridge the risk or heal the uncertainties that come with caring deeply for another person. The more familiarized I become with the beautiful and simultaneous contradictions that make up the man with whom I spend my time, the more I realize that there isn’t any reason for applying these general rules where close observation is merited. My boyfriend does things differently from me, and the more I learn his language, the more I’m able to recognize and feel the depth of his caring towards me.

Timidly, I am choosing the limbs and breastbone of one, a man who isn’t much for spoken words, but whose touch resounds on me with the impact of Halley’s, falling, landing, a whisper into the ground.

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Photography by Matt Lowden

What Did Your Mom Give You?

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So much of Mother’s Day advertisements and conversation is about what to get Mom on her special day (we are guilty, I know, but we have such fantastic gifts on Farminista, we can’t help it). Gifts can be great, that special thing you know your mother would love and only you understand why  is based on a bond only you have with her.

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Gifts for your favourite person
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Tea Time

Often you hear about breakfast in bed or a special Mothers Day brunch.  I was surprised at how touching my friend Maygen’s blog post was to me.  I love to hear how important the role of a mother is, in so many ways.  This is the time of year to make a point to let your mom know that, or someone you look up to as a mentor if you no longer have your mom in your life.  You can find the entire post on The Rooster blog, I just want to share a few quotes from the OCM girls on what they Got from their mama!


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Kim Davies: “Like many mothers, mine is extraordinary beyond words. Her undeniable strength, sincerity, compassion and kindness are characteristics I aspire to exemplify. I am forever grateful to my mother, for my life as her child.”

 

 

 

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Karyn Kimberly: “I’m grateful I received my mother’s love, patience and gentle smile.”

 

 

 

 

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Susan Busse “I’m so grateful to have received my mom’s appreciation for pretty clothes (she still has four full, neatly organized closets) and more importantly, I’m grateful to have received her sense of general capability.”

 

 

 

 

Mom, sister, and Roxanne herself.

Roxanne Woodley “I love my mom’s love of nostalgia. She always has a story of how wonderful her grandma was and it reminds me to love my heritage and cherish the memories of my great grandmother and grandparents. Also, I got my moms brown eyes and I love the colour- all my kids have bright blue eyes for some reason!”

 

Isn’t that great?!

(note: thanks Maygen for sneaking me, my sister and my mom in there too!)

Now we would love to hear what you “got from your mama”!  Email us at farminista.com and we will add to our blog, we might even pick a winner to get a gift card 🙂

MmMmm Florals!

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Last Friday, my heart beat a little, scrap that, a lot faster when I opened the door to a freshly fallen layer of “the white stuff”…

Mother Nature at her prima donna best.

For our out of province fashionistas, the “flavours” of spring in Saskatchewan are about as varied as your choice in granite countertops. Ugh. Right? However, warmer weather does seem to be in the air… So here, on Farminista, we’re welcoming summer with a bouquet in hand 🙂

This time of year, feminine florals are the perfect way to spark your inner glow and snag that little “pick me up” that comes with the thought of summer!

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From full pieces to accessories, Farminista is stocked with florals and these lil cuties are gold!

However, if you’re a dreamer, like me, and maybe a bit of a rebel as well (just a bit :p) then you might want to be beach shopping in advance. Just sayin. This beach knit is über comfy and can also be worn, as pictured below, on warm days around the town. To add a little intrigue to this relaxed, yet polished, look, try a smokey eye and floral accessories to go with 🙂

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So don’t fret about the ever impending chance of snow – smiles are in blossom, for summer is the once in ten month jewel :p

Warm regards,

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